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Cynthia Frisch's avatar

Your Uncle Steven and I were great friends when we were at Duke — and had some truly memorable academic adventures together. Like the time he wrote a paper for what I think was our French surrealism course and the professor had to go to a place (probably where he lived) because he had put each page in a different place — like a trail of his writing. And as soon as I read this profound piece about your mom, I couldn’t help but think, “It’s in her blood.” Being a writer is not something you become. It’s something you just are. And you, my dear, just are. My hope is that the gift of words continue to embrace you in their own tender and healing way in the days ahead.

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Brenna Mahoney's avatar

Your writing is beautifully precise. I’m stunned by your ability to capture these feelings. Thank you for sharing your words, which make me feel closer to your mama. Much love to all of you

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Tina Kelley's avatar

This is so beautifully written and profound and memorable. So sorry for your loss.

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Gail Tishcoff's avatar

Wow. Such a well written description of bereavement and what I have always called those "portal moments" (i.e. birth and death). My deepest sympathies.

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Samantha Bell's avatar

Permanent chills can not be reversed after reading this. Always blown away. Ily

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Sherri Victor's avatar

Wow- You are a gifted writer and captured Julie's essence and your journey through those days perfectly. Thank you for sharing with me.

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Mickey Revenaugh's avatar

Gorgeous, Jess!

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Syd's avatar

this cracked my heart open, jess. i felt every single one of your stunning words. i love you. thank you for allowing us into your world <3

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